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Genderqueer: Documentary about an LGBTQIAP+ Queertopia

Gender, Gender Identities, Sexuality – The recently released Dutch documentary ‘Beste Reizigers’ by draftsman Nirit Pelet for VPRO Tegenlicht deals with the future of gender segregation in males and females, diverse gender identities and trans people. The almost 45-minute documentary covers various examples of where the binary gender system is already being dispensed within the Netherlands but also looks abroad. Queertopia? Genderqueer? LGBTQIAP+? For a Couple of Men, I watched the queer documentary.

‘Beste Reizigers’ – Gender-neutral welcome on Dutch Trains

The title of the documentary ‘Beste Reizigers – Dear Travelers’ is based on the decision of the national railway company of the Netherlands to no longer address passengers with ‘ladies and gentlemen’, but gender-neutral. This was announced in mid-2017 on the company’s website. “Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, members of the LGBTQIA + community and everyone with a valid ticket.” That was too long for us. And yet we wanted everyone to feel welcome.”

For Dutch people (and all of you who speak Dutch):



For all other people on this planet (YouTube not visible in the Netherlands):



Genderqueer examples from all over the world

The documentary shows in 45 minutes various examples from all over the world how gender neutrality is implemented and how the topic is handled. The American transgender boxing professional Patricio Manuel participates in men’s competitions for the first time. Also on display is a project from the Netherlands, which offers an opportunity for trans-boys and men to ask questions that might otherwise go unanswered. At the same time, the film also shows footage of a funeral service from the Westerkerk in Amsterdam for people who have been violently killed because of their sexuality or their gender identity.

Queertopia – Weak points of the binary gender system

In addition to the examples, the documentation also raises fundamental questions, such as how contemporary the binary gender thinking in men and women is at all and why only in certain aspects, such as one’s own sexuality or gender affiliation, a coming out is expected. Similarly, the film gives rise to a rethinking of how children are confronted with hetero-normative role models rather than diversity from the earliest age.


Photo source: VPRO Tegenlicht
News source: Nieuws.NS | VPRO Tegenlicht | YouTube VPRO

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More about Sarah

The first woman behind Couple of Men. My name is Sarah, and I was born in Germany. So far, I have lived and worked in the Czech Republic, Spain, and the Netherlands. Currently, I am working in Amsterdam. I am a journalist and in 2016, I decided to become a freelancer. I enjoy writing about topics that I consider important, like human rights, women’s rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and politics, and I hope my articles will raise some more awareness of global injustice. Furthermore, I follow my passion for traveling, I love to read and to make music. And the best part is that: I can choose to turn into a digital nomad for a while whenever I feel like it. My article might come from a sunny beach in Argentina. Click here to listen to my podcast AmsterDames >

Queertopia – A call to spectrum thinking

The following quote by Janaya Khan from the film summarizes perfectly what this important docu would like to accomplish: “There are 7 billion people on this planet and we are told there are only two sexes, two gender identities, and one sexuality.”

Further interesting film articles on the topic:
– All Episodes of LGBTQ+ Drama “Queer Amsterdam!”
– Watch it! 100 Drag Queens United Lipdub in Amsterdam
– Gay, Lesbian & Queer Top Lists: Amsterdam LGBTQ+ Film Festival “Roze Filmdagen”

By the way, even good to know: If you do not speak Dutch yourself, you can still watch the documentary, because most of the material is in English.


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