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John’s Amsterdam Gay Cruising Guide

Amsterdam has a reputation around the world. Sex, drugs, prostitutes in red-lit windows, and windmills are some common associations in peoples’ minds. While there is some truth to these ideas, Amsterdam is working very hard on creating a new image that emphasizes the importance of culture within the city. Museums, restaurants, concerts, and festivals are the heart of Amsterdam – and they draw a wide crowd of locals and tourists. While Amsterdam used to be the gay epicenter of Europe, it’s unfortunate that this has largely faded over the last 20 years.

The exact reasons for this will never be known. Some claim it’s the commodification and ‘Disneyfication’ of the city. The gay neighborhoods where you used to see gaggles of leather men congregate have been transformed into souvenir and waffle shops. Others claim that the capital city of the Netherlands is so progressive that there is no need for a gay ‘infrastructure’ anymore. Because everyone is welcome everywhere the need for gay neighborhoods is gone. The reality is likely somewhere in between these two reasons. With plenty of bars, clubs, and outdoor spaces to meet guys, Amsterdam is definitely not a city inspiring abstinence. Enjoy John’s Amsterdam Gay Cruising guide for the best gay cruising experience in the Dutch capital with tips for gay bars, gay clubs, and outdoor cruising on Couple of Men.



Our Amsterdam Gay Cruising Guide

Gay men enjoy a significant amount of social acceptance and freedom in the capital city of the Netherlands – but it has come at the loss of many places and institutions that used to give this city its distinctive gay edges. Nevertheless, there are many places in Amsterdam that still embody the original spirit of the 80s and 90s, and offer experiences that are unique to Amsterdam as a destination. Meeting guys in Amsterdam isn’t hard – but in some places, it’s easier than in others, especially when you’re trying to get laid.


Gay Couple Biking Trips Amsterdam Forest © CoupleofMen.com

Gay Cruising is possible outdoors in Amsterdam © Coupleofmen.com


Gay Summer Road Trip Skåne A naked kiss at the clothing optional gay beach of Sandhammaren © Coupleofmen.com

Gay Cruising Guides © Coupleofmen.com

Gay Cruising Guides

Together with our dear friend and Gay Cruising Culture expert John, we are showing you the best cruising places of gay-friendly travel destinations around the world. How to find gay cruising hot spots? What should be considered when doing gay cruising? Is gay cruising legal in the country you are traveling to?


Gay Cruising Bars and Clubs in Amsterdam

Drake’s Gay Bar in Amsterdam

There is a handful of gay cruising establishments in Amsterdam that combine a bar that serves drinks with a cabin or maze-like set up. One exception to this is Drake’s on the Damrak, which only emphasizes the latter. While the downstairs looks like an innocent luxury boutique that sells slightly kinky gifts, the upstairs is a full-on, men-only, video-cabin, glory hole playground. If you’re under 26, you can enter for free after showing an ID. Due to its proximity to the central station, a mixed crowd of locals and out of towners gather here; from afternoons to the early evenings. If you prefer a place where sex and socializing over a drink are a bit more in balance you have a couple of other options in the city.


Going out and cruising in Amsterdam at night

Going out and cruising in Amsterdam at night


Cuckoo’s Nest Gay Bar in Amsterdam

For a bit more socializing but still plenty of cruising, head over to the Cuckoo’s Nest. With a complete bar upstairs and a large, darkened cruising maze with cabins downstairs, you can meet up for a drink or much, much more, in any order that you prefer. What makes this bar stand out is that it often gets full even in the afternoon, so you can easily combine this with other activities in the center. Similarly to Drake’s, the clientele is mixed of locals and tourists, with a distinct slightly kinky edge to it.



Eagles Gay Bar in Amsterdam

If you’re looking for a combined club and cruise-bar experience, explore The Eagle on Warmoestraat. The Eagle offers a perfect mixture in terms of going out, as the relaxed bar feeling in the afternoon turns into a full-on club later at night – all with a sizeable basement for play. 

Club Church Gay Bar in Amsterdam

If you’re hoping to really dance and cruise, then Club Church is right for you. This place is truly a late nightclub, with the largest dance floor out of all of them. With several play areas and specific fetish nights, Club Church offers something for everyone. Before going to Church, it’s advised to check the agenda for the night, as some parties have specific dress codes. Please note that most of these establishments are men only, with a few exceptional nights or special events here and there.


The sexy city center of Amsterdam known for its Red Light District

The sexy city center of Amsterdam known for its Red-Light District


Notable Gay Cruising Bars in Amsterdam

Other notable mentions to check out when touring the city include Spijkerbar (perfect to go before Church, or on an easy afternoon), the Web, and if you’re up for it, Dirty Dicks. For an after-party, or for any time of the day really, it’s definitely worth to pay a visit to Sauna NZ

Gay Sauna NZ Amsterdam

With jacuzzis, saunas, and steam rooms, partaking in some wet exploring with only a towel around your waist is relaxing and fun at Amsterdam’s gay Sauna NZ. The crowds will change significantly depending on the time of day and what other events are happening in the city, with an older crowd in the afternoons and a younger, club-kid vibe in the early morning hours.


Pride Amsterdam 2018 from a Canal Parade Boat © Coupleofmen.com

Gay Amsterdam Travel Guide © Coupleofmen.com

Gay Travel Guide Amsterdam

The Dutch capital is considered to be one of the most gay-friendly cities in the world. By legalizing same-sex marriage as the first country in the world already in 2001, the Netherlands and its capital offer a diverse LGBTQ+ friendly cultural program throughout the whole year. The highlight of the Summer is (Gay) Pride Amsterdam.


Outdoor Cruising in Amsterdam

Cruising in public places is often not officially allowed, a legal gray zone, or just plain illegal. Although some municipalities and tourist destinations tend to not control certain spots too heavily, Amsterdam has one of the few officially designated zones in the world in which cruising (including nudity and public sex) are tolerated. 

Cruising at Nieuwe Meer Amsterdam

This zone is located in De Oeverlanden close to the Nieuwe Meer. Here you will find official signs placed by the municipality of Amsterdam that show specifically what area these activities are tolerated. On sunny days this is a perfect place to come and do some naked sunbathing. Within this designated area there is tall grass, woods, and little pathways to explore, that many men walk around completely in the nude or only in shorts. Pretty much anything goes at Nieuwe Meer. Men come alone, or in groups of friends, or as couples. Some just sunbathe and enjoy the view, while others make many new…friends.

On hot days, the area gets quite full, with a mix of younger and older guys. You should know that there are not many shops around this area, so my advice would be to bring sufficient drinks with you on a hot day. While there is a gas station nearby that you can go to in a pinch, it doesn’t sell any alcohol. My exclusive tip here is, in addition to drinks, sun-screen, and something to lay down on is to bring insect spray. You don’t want to end up with a tick on your balls after a busy day of lying in the tall grass. 

The official cruising area is also close to the waterfront, which is one of the prime places to have a swim in the summer. This part however officially falls outside the cruising zone, so there is not much action going on here. Officially, nudism is also not allowed here, but many visitors still choose to sunbathe and go swimming in the nude anyway. When you spend an afternoon here, you will also find a surprising number of boats that are anchored close to the shoreline that flies gay or bear flags. Often one or two male captains. It can be exciting to swim around the boats and see if these captains are nice enough to invite you onboard for a taste of nautical adventure. 

Nieuwe Meer and de Oeverlanden is truly a unique place in Amsterdam (and in the world!), in which you can enjoy freedom, nudity, and a feeling of belonging among others. The closeness to nature and the water is liberating and makes you forget that you’re in a city.


Hot summer days in South-West Amsterdam at Nieuwe Meer © Coupleofmen.com

Hot summer days in South-West Amsterdam at Nieuwe Meer © Coupleofmen.com



Nudist Zone Zonneweide

If you want to get even further away from the city to enjoy some sun on your balls, it might be worth making the trip to Amsterdamse Bos. The Zonneweide is another officially designated nudist zone. In contrast to Nieuwe Meer, however, this is not a cruising zone. While Nieuwe Meer tends to be almost exclusively men, Zonneweide is mixed and not specifically intended for cruising. But, as it is often, naughty gays do tend to accumulate on the outside perimeter of this huge open field to at least check out each other’s goods. On sunny days, you’ll also notice your gay men dating apps blowing up quickly when you’re in the vicinity. It’s important to be respectful to others in spaces such as this, and note that sexuality here is mostly covert. While there’s no denying that you can cruise a bit at Zonneweide, if your primary goal is to pick up guys, you should head over to Nieuwe Meer.


Outdoor Cruising Amsterdam - Nieuwe Meer, Vondelpark, and Amsterdamse Bos

Outdoor Cruising Amsterdam – Nieuwe Meer, Vondelpark, and Amsterdamse Bos


Cruising at Vondelpark & Rozetuin

If both places are too far for you, and you want to stay in the city center – why not give Vondelpark a try? The Rozetuin is a popular hangout spot for gay guys, close to the water fountains. Little groups of friends gather here in the summer to socialize and have a beer. It’s a friendly and relaxed atmosphere (albeit, not nude). At night the bushes and wooded areas around the Rozetuin start filling up with guys cruising for sex. While it’s definitely going on, it’s not for the faint-hearted. 

Cruising here happens in complete darkness, only illuminated by the occasional glow of a cigarette in the dark. With an absence of streetlights, you have to not only watch your step but also your belongings as pickpockets or other sketchiness can happen here. Cruising tends to be tolerated here by the authorities, although it’s not as official as in Nieuwe Meer, and only as long as you don’t bother others who aren’t involved. While there is no police control looking for cruising men here, gay-bashing has unfortunately occurred over the last years, so caution is definitely advised.


John’s Guide for Gay Cruising in the Dutch Capital Amsterdam

But of course, a vacation in Amsterdam is not “only” about sexual encounters and cruising. Besides its unique cultural heritage with many historical buildings and museums, Amsterdam has a strong connection to nature. Be it the world-famous canals, the parks and the Northern Sea around the corner it’s not going to be boring during your trip to the Dutch capital city.

For many European travelers of the LGBTQ+ community, Amsterdam is one of the LGBTQ+ and gay-friendliest cities in the world. Don’t forget to bookmark this Amsterdam Gay Cruising Guide for your next gay adventures! Also, we cannot wait to go back there…

Do you want to know more about our gay travels around the world? Stay tuned on FacebookTwitterYouTube, Pinterest, and Instagram. See you again in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, or somewhere around the world! Karl & Daan & John.

Disclaimer: The contents of this website were written with due diligence and by the author’s best knowledge. Please be always aware of the local laws and behavioral guidelines regarding cruising in public and public sexual encounters even on the beach, in the forest, or wherever it might happen. Our cruising guides and cruising stories are not intended to support unlawful behavior but aim to add an adventurous note to your trip.


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