We’re Karl and Daan, a gay couple traveling the world together for over 10 years. Our authentic LGBTQ+ travel guides are based on real-life experiences and tailored for mature gay men seeking authenticity, safety, and emotional connection while traveling. From bear-friendly resorts to local cruising tips, we write about what we know and what we’ve lived.

Not at all! While we write from a gay couple’s perspective, our guides are designed for solo gay men, gay bears, mature LGBTQ+ travelers, and anyone looking for queer-friendly travel advice. You’ll find tips for navigating local laws, booking queer welcoming stays, and connecting with the LGBTQ+ community — whether you’re traveling solo, as friends, or with a partner.

Some of our favorites? Gran Canaria, Sitges, Berlin, Palm Springs, and Fort Lauderdale. And of course, our home of choice, Amsterdam! These destinations celebrate diversity in body, age, and attitude — and they host some of the best LGBTQ+ queer and gay bear events. We’ve documented our favorite spots and accommodations in our gay travel guides, with photos and stories from our trips.

It depends on where you go. In places like Amsterdam, Berlin, and Barcelona, there are legal and culturally accepted spaces for cruising. But it’s always essential to check local laws and safety conditions. In our gay cruising guides, we share personal tips on etiquette, safety, and the best places we’ve explored — based on real-life experience, not assumptions.

Yes — every review you read on Couple of Men comes from our personal stays, experienced cruises, or paid collaborations. We always stay at the gay-friendly accommodations, meet the people, and take the photos ourselves. We only recommend destinations that feel safe, inclusive, and joyful for LGBTQ+ travelers like us.

Start with our destination guides. Each one includes info on LGBTQ+ laws, queer nightlife, cruising culture, and the best accommodations. We also cover when to go, where to stay, and how to feel safe — all based on what we experienced. Plus, we keep guides updated for major Pride events and seasonal tips.

Absolutely. As a gay bear couple, we’re big believers in body positivity and comfort. Many of our readers love clothing-optional gay resorts and nude beaches. We feature honest and respectful reviews of these places across Europe and beyond, particularly where they intersect with LGBTQ+ community events.

We’d love to hear from you! You can always reach us via our About Us page or Instagram @coupleofmen. Whether you need help choosing a destination, booking a hotel, or just want to share your story, we’re here for you.