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Costa Rica: 18 Tropical Days in Central America

Costa Rica: 18 Tropical Days in Central America

All about our adventurous trip around the northwestern part of Costa Rica, including the highlights of our first-ever gay travels to Central America. Costa Rica is a true paradise for us nature lovers, beach fans, and gay couple travelers. The natural beauty is everywhere, with white sand beaches, palm trees, rainforest, and a spectacular coastline. There is such high biodiversity with famous Costa Rican animals like toucans, red-eyed leaf (tree) frogs, sloths, screeching macaws, and, when you’re lucky, even whales. And, of course, not to forget to mention the friendly and courteous Costa Ricans and the significant number of high-class, luxurious, gay-friendly accommodations. But now, enjoy the Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica of our 18-day trip full of photos and stories and see gay-friendly Costa Rica through a couple of men’s eyes.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica In the end, #lovewins, always! Enjoying Hot Springs at Tabacon © Coupleofmen.com
In the end, #lovewins, always! Enjoying Hot Springs at Tabacon © Coupleofmen.com

A key fact to note: Costa Rica is one of the safest and most LGBTQ+ welcoming countries in Central America. We enjoyed as a gay couple and gay travel bloggers, an exciting and diversified gaycation, and we always felt safe wherever we went in Costa Rica. It only gets better for the LGBTQ+ community. After the ruling of the Inter-American Court of Human Rights, the government of Costa Rica has to implement equal rights and therefore legalize same-sex marriage, adoption, and the recognition of transgender people’s gender identity by the beginning of 2020. Knowing that, combined with our consistently positive “Pura Vida” experience, you can consider a trip to Costa Rica as a member of the LGBTQ+ community without any reservations.

Flying with KLM Royal Dutch Airlines © Coupleofmen.com

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Journal of our 1st Trip to gay-friendly Costa Rica

Our trip through gay-friendly Costa Rica started in San José, Costa Rica’s capital city with its gay bars, gay-friendly restaurants, and cafés, and annual and regularly LGBT events like the Gay Pride, usually held in July. Our second destination was the region of La Fortuna at the Arenal Volcano National Park with its iconic shaped volcano. This area is well-known for its hot springs and hanging bridges through the dense rainforest. After a couple of hours on the road over stunning mountain ranges and through lush green valleys towards the Pacific coast, we reached the northwestern province of Guanacaste. Here, we enjoyed the warm salt water of the Pacific Ocean, infinity pools, and incredible sunsets. The next stop on our list was the cloud forest in Monteverde, featuring canopy zip line tours and spectacular hanging bridges that traverse the treetops. Finally, we spent some relaxing days near Playa Jacó, enjoying animal watching, including sightings of whales, several toucans, and macaws.

Day 1 to 3: San José – Costa Rica’s capital city

Every journey starts with a trip to the Amsterdam Airport Schiphol. From here, we took a flight with KLM Royal Dutch Airlines via the US to San José, Costa Rica’s capital city. After passing the customs and immigration control, we took a taxi from the modern Airport to our first centrally located hotel with a spectacular view of the popular football stadium Estadio Nacional de Costa Rica.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Football Stadium Estadio Nacional de Costa Rica in San José with an arriving thunderstorm | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Yes, Costa Ricans love football, and we do not mean the American way. The access to the city was comfortable from here as most parts of San José are actually walkable, at least for us explorers. An alternative option to explore longer distances in San José is Uber. We spent most of our time northeast of the Park Parque Central San José, taking photos of graffiti art close to the Estación de Ferrocarril al Atlántico.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Graffiti selfie in Costa Rica's capital city San José | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Our favorite dinner place El Jardin de Lolita at the Escalante neighborhood | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Karl looking to find the rainbow in San José, Costa Rica | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

All while having delicious burgers, pizza, beer, and cocktails at El Jardín de Lolita at the Escalante neighborhood and meeting local LGBTQ+ at the popular gay bar Neon Ice. Pink and light blue neon signs illuminate the local queer safe space, as its name implies. Since it was the green season in Costa Rica, it mostly started raining in the afternoon while the day started sunny and hot.

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Central 5*-Hotel San José – Hilton Garden Inn
Central 4*-Hotel San José – Hotel Presidente
Close to the Airport 4*-Hotel – ALoft Hotel

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Karl in front the The National Theater of Costa Rica Teatro Nacional de Costa Rica | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Dine Out with the boys Julio, his boyfriend Moisés and Bruce from Canada | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Your Gay Costa Rica Trip

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Day 3 to 5: Arenal Volcano National Park

After three days in San José, our nature adventure around Costa Rica’s northwest would begin. Our first stop was La Fortuna, located at the Arenal Volcano National Park, which is renowned for its iconic, cone-shaped volcano, Volcán Arenal. It was an adventurous ride with our small bus through dense rainforest, narrow serpentine mountain roads, and heavy rain showers.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica We love the view over the Arenal Volcano and, of course, each other | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Please keep in mind that we traveled to Costa Rica during the rainy, or so-called Green Season. Showers of rain and thunderstorms are a standard part of every Costa Rica trip during late European summer, but with the proper clothing, it’s not a problem, seriously. The region around the volcano offers several resorts with a spectacular view of the volcano.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica What a morning view at our gay-friendly hotel Montana de Fuego in La Fortuna | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Our highlights of the Arenal Volcano National Park: The Tabacon Hot Springs with its volcanic-heated thermal spring water. A day trip to the Mistico Hanging Bridges Park where we could see some famous animals of Costa Rica, like the Red-Eyed Leaf (Tree) Frog and tropical raccoons called Coatis! We could have stayed much longer and explored, for instance, the lake Laguna de Arenal, but this has to become part of our next trip to Costa Rica!

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica A dream came true when walking through the rainforest of the Mistico Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Volanco View 5*- Hotel – Tabacon Thermal Resort & Spa
Volcano View 4*- Eco Hotel San José – Hotel Montana de Fuego Resort & Spa

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Enjoying the Tabacon Hot Springs in Arenal Volcano National Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica So happy and proud to finally visit Costa Rica together! Pura Vida LGBT | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Day 5 to 7: Guanacaste – Papagayo Peninsula & Diamante Eco Park

Leaving the central region of Costa Rica behind, we began our long journey to the Pacific coast in the northwestern province of Guanacaste, Costa Rica. But the long bus ride itself was an experience as well. For quite a while, we followed the massive Laguna de Arenal in a northerly direction over narrow gravel roads, climbing uphill through spectacular mountain ranges.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Lovely refreshing infinity pool at Andaz Hotel with a view over the Culebra Bay (Bahía Culebra) | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Sexy view: half naked Karl enjoying the view over the Bahía Culebra Bay | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

We were enjoying the view downhill over the green and wide meadows of Costa Rica’s cattle country of Guanacaste. Our final destination was the peninsula of Papagayo, which is the home of several extraordinary, luxurious, and gay-friendly hotels. And, you already know from previous trips, we love some good adrenaline shots as well.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Enjoying snorkeling with the boys in the lukewarm water of the Pacific | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Just about one hour from Papagayo, we visited the Diamante Eco Park & Animal Sanctuary offering an incredible Superman Zip Lining with a stunning view over the deep blue Pacific Ocean. During our visit to the animal sanctuary afterward, we could see some of the most beautiful birds in the world, Toucans.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Gay Couple Shooting at Diamante Eco Adventure Park right before our Superman Zip Line flight | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Zip Lining together at Diamante Eco Adventure Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica And here we fly away like Superman at Diamante Eco Adventure Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Bay View 5*- Hotel – Andaz Costa Rica Resort
Ocean View 5*- Hotel – El Mangroove, Autograph Collection

Day 7 to 10: Perfect Gay Honeymoon at Casa Chameleon at Las Catalinas

Our first week was filled with thrilling adventures, extraordinary experiences, and breathtaking views of the unique Costa Rican landscape. Time for a break, time for some “just us-moments”. And you know what?

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Private Villa including infinity pool at Casa Chameleon at Las Catalinas | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

We found the perfect place for a romantic and relaxing vacation. We stayed in an ocean-view villa with a private infinity pool and experienced the most stunning sunsets imaginable. It was wonderful waking up to such a spectacular view from our canopy bed, having breakfast served at the gorgeous restaurant, and relaxing in our private pool or taking a long walk along the Playa Danta.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Walking hand-in-hand along Playa Danta and the new Costa Rican village Las Catalinas | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

We had the perfect gaycation at Casa Chameleon and can imagine choosing this accommodation as our gay honeymoon resort in Costa Rica… hehehe…

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Ocean View 5*- Resort – Casa Chameleon at Las Catalinas

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Wow, what a sunset over the Pacific Ocean from our private villa at Casa Chameleon | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

 Gay Costa Rica Travel Guide

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Day 10 to 12: Monteverde – Cloud Forest at Selvatura Park

But our trip was not over yet; it was just halftime, and we were on our way back to central Costa Rica, to the world-famous cloud forest of Monteverde. The ride was a real adventure, with most of the time spent driving over a serpentine gravel mountain road. In Google Maps, the distance from the Pacific coast to Monteverde appeared to be significantly shorter than the actual trip duration. Now we know why.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Stunning view over the treetops of the world-famous cloud forest in Monteverde | Exploring Gay-friendly Costa Rica hand-in-hand together © Coupleofmen.com

But with every meter uphill, the clouds came closer and closer, and the forest became greener and greener. We arrived, jarred but happy, in Santa Elena, in our modern and spacious apartment nestled in the treetops of the surrounding rainforest. The weather changed rapidly from sunny to cloudy and misty with showers just one hour after we arrived.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Flying over through the treetop over the rainforest at Selvatura Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

But that was why we were in Monteverde, to experience the cloud forest, right? The next day, we booked a combo trip to Selvatura Park, including Rainforest Canopy Zip Lining and an individual Hanging Bridges tour walking through the treetops of the Costa Rican rainforest. What an incredible adventure.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Karl enjoying the stunning view over the Hanging Bridges in Monteverde | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Family Owned 4*- Hotel – Hotel Belmar Monteverde

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Gay Travel Guides 2018 Enjoying the view over the cloud forest Monteverde | Exploring Gay-friendly Costa Rica hand-in-hand together © Coupleofmen.com
Happy at Trixie Motel in Palm Springs © Coupleofmen.com

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Day 13 to 16: Beach & Nature time around Playa Jaco & Herradura

Time flies, even in paradise. And so, it was time for us to leave the mountains again and to travel to the last destination of our three weeks in Costa Rica, to Jacó’s crescent beaches. Before we traveled to Costa Rica, we had always imagined the landscape of the Central American country to be like that in the Jurassic Park movies: dense tropical rainforests, high humidity, warm temperatures, and a high number of insects and animals.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica In cannot get any better: View from our private Hot Tub on our private balcony at our hotel close by Playa Jaco & Herradura | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Lunch with a view over Costa Rica's incredible diverse nature including whales | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Something different: Costa Rica Bird Watching from a private hot tub | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

And to be fair, nature and landscape are like that. But instead of running away from a T-Rex, just add a gay-friendly luxurious accommodation to it and voilà, the Costa Rican dream came true. We found the perfect match for our paradise picture: A luxurious hotel on a mountaintop surrounded by rainforest with a view over the Pacific. Oh, not to forget the private beach (all beaches in Costa Rica are public spaces, but some are just harder to find). Simply the perfect way of saying goodbye Costa Rica!

Gay-friendly Hotels:
Gay Owned 5*- Hotel – Hotel Villa Caletas

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Our favorite birds: Toucans, here the genius Ramphastos with their enormous, colourful, bills | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Enjoying the rough beauty of Costa Rica's Pacific beaches | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Toucans and a couple of red Macaws chatting and singing | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Day 16 to 18: San José – Gay Life & Shopping

Costa Rica’s capital city San José has a lively nightlife, including several gay bars, clubs, and (fetish) party events. During our stay, we visited the Neon Ice bar in the Barrio Escalante neighborhood, which offers snacks, local beer, and delicious cocktails. The audience is a mixed crowd of hip queer people and handsome, bearded gay guys around our age, definitely a tip.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Hand-in-hand in front of the Neon Ice sign, our favorite gay bar in San José | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Gay Selfie in front of the Neon Ice sign, our favorite gay bar in San José | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

We already mentioned our friends Jason and Bryan from San José, we met during our second La Demence European Gay Cruise, who own their brand Beardedman. Now, they also have their fetish clothing line and fetish party series in San José called Eagle 69. Lucky us, we could attend their Hard Candy Party with special guest porn star Teddy Torres. This October, the beach of Manuel Antonio was the host of the first Gay Beach Bear Weekend.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Meeting our friends Jason and Bryan from Bearded Man | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Do you know of any other great gay bars or LGBT-friendly places in Costa Rica? Let us know! We would be happy to add them to our list! Oh, and as we mentioned earlier, the annual Gay Pride event takes place in San José in early summer. We hope to attend the Pride “Marcha de la Deversidad” in Costa Rica!

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Selfie with Teddy Torres at Gay Fetish Party Eagle69 | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Travel & Safety Tips for Gay-friendly Costa Rica

For our article about Gay-friendly Costa Rica, we assembled some well-intentioned tips for your perfect gaycation:

#1 Currency: The Costa Rican currency is the Costa Rican colón: 1 Euro = ca. 680 Colón | 1 US Dollar = ca. 595 Colón.

#2 Day & Night Time: Costa Rica is located near the equator. This means that the sun rises around 6 am and sets around 6 pm. After 6 pm, it becomes dark quickly, so plan your vacation days wisely. The locals tend to get up very early and go to bed early as well.

#3 Costa Rica Timezone: The timezone in Costa Rica is CST – Central Standard Time used all year around. Which means it is UTC/GMT -6:00 hours.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica The paved roads in Costa Rica are in a great condition | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

#4 The best time to travel to Costa Rica: The answer to this question is simple – All year round because there is no wrong weather, but just bad clothing. Nevertheless, Costa Rica has two distinguished seasons, the High and the Green Season, and multiple climate zones, so you should be prepared for them.

#5 Wildlife: Never feed wild animals. Do not touch wild animals at any time. Exceptions: If you are accompanied by a guide or in an animal sanctuary where it is explicitly permitted, but still, do you really need to pet a wild bird or lizard? Just don’t do it. Moreover, do not hang any clothing on the balcony or terrace overnight to dry, as monkeys find everything interesting and are free to take it away.

#6 Safety in Costa Rica: In general, Costa Ricans are considered to be pacifistic and peaceful people, and even their protests and demonstrations are usually non-violent, especially towards tourists. This means, Costa Rica as a destination is supposed to be safe not only for LGBTQ+ tourists. We actually met a lovely lesbian couple from Amsterdam who traveled alone and who could confirm all the above points as well.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Meet our new friends, a lesbian couple from Amsterdam who we met in one of the Gray Line transfers | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Highlights of Costa Rica’s Nature: Toucan, Sloth, Macaw, Green Frogs & more

Did you know that Costa Rica’s nature contains 5% of the world’s biodiversity? For us, this was just one of the reasons why this small Central American country was so high on our list of places to visit for gay travelers. And lucky us, we encountered a large variety of animals we would like to share with you! Among others, we discovered two of the world’s famous red-eyed leaf frogs at Mistico Park, as well as hummingbirds and a family of coatis. On the peninsula of Papagayo, we were accompanied by the so-called White-headed capuchin monkeys trying to get some sweets from our breakfast plates. Not to be missed were the howls of the howler monkey that sound like screeching or almost screaming.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica So happy we saw a Red-Eyed Leaf (Tree) Frog in free nature | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica One of the most famous animals of Costa Rica - the Blue Butterfly Menelaus Blue Morpho | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Curious White-headed capuchin monkey trying to steal our breakfast | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica One of the famous Costa Rica animals: Our favorite shot of a Sloth | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Lunch view: Red Macaw in the Rainforest at the Pacific Coast | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com
Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica A black Ctenosaur Iguana laying around to get some sun | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

On our walk down to the beach, we encountered one close to the hotel. And then, there were birds, so many birds. Undoubtedly, our favorites were the toucans. In the wilderness, we saw four of them flying, singing, and chatting with each other, always at a safe distance from humans. And then, there was a beautiful couple of red macaws. The two fire-red birds were pretty to watch, but honestly, they are horrible singers! Oh, and not to forget, we could even do some whale watching at the Nicoya Gulf.

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Meeting beautiful Toucan "Larry" at Diamante Eco Adventure Park | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica: Just the beginning…

We know, we know… There is so much more to see, explore, and discover, such as the southwestern part of Costa Rica, including the Pacific coast and the great national parks. Or the Caribbean side of Costa Rica with its beautiful beaches in the south and the rainforest in the north. We have to come back again to see more of the beautiful nature, learn more about Costa Rican culture, including the delicious coffee, and catch up with our new friends. We can’t wait to start planning our next Costa Rica adventure and adding even more extraordinary experiences to our Costa Rica Gay Travel Guide. Pura Vida LGBT!

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Gay Travel Journal Costa Rica Truly magical nature at gay-friendly Tabacon Hot Springs Resort & Spa | Gay-friendly Costa Rica © Coupleofmen.com

Do you want to know and see more of us, gay couple travel bloggers? Stay tuned on Instagram, Threads, TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook! See you around in Costa Rica, Central America, and on one of our next gay pride trips around the world! Karl & Daan.

This trip was made possible in close collaboration with the Chamber of Commerce Diversity Costa Rica, GayCostaRica.com, as well as the tips and help from our wonderful readers, followers, new and old friends from all over the world and Costa Rica. Nevertheless, our opinion, our photos, our videos, and our writings are our own, as always.

Noel Johnson

Tuesday 27th of December 2022

Costa Rica ahhhh! I love Javier!

Lydia

Thursday 28th of February 2019

Wow,amazing photos. Everything is so lovely and fresh. Is it okey to travel solo? Is it advisable?

Karl Krause

Friday 22nd of March 2019

Hi Lydia... Since we traveled with a guide and sometimes even with a group, we cannot say. But we met a lesbian couple who traveled alone and they loved it! We hope you will make it to Costa Rica and see all the wonders we discovered and beyond!